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Have you heard of the five love languages?
Do you know which is your love language?
The Five Love Languages
1. Words of Affirmation
Verbal appreciation speaks powerfully to persons whose primary Love Language is “Words of Affirmation.” Simple statements, such as, “You look great in that suit,” or “You must be the best baker in the world! I love your oatmeal cookies,” are sometimes all a person needs to hear to feel loved.
Aside from verbal compliments, another way to communicate through “Words of Affirmation” is to offer encouragement.
2. Quality Time
Quality time is more than mere proximity. It’s about focusing all your energy on your mate. A husband watching sports while talking to his wife is NOT quality time. Unless all of your attention is focused on your mate, even an intimate dinner for two can come and go without a minute of quality time being shared.
Quality conversation is very important in a healthy relationship. It involves sharing experiences, thoughts, feelings and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context. A good mate will not only listen, but offer advice and respond to assure their mate they are truly listening. Many mates don’t expect you to solve their problems. They need a sympathetic listener.
Quality activities are a very important part of quality time. Many mates feel most loved when they spend physical time together, doing activities that they love to do. Spending time together will bring a couple closer, and, in the years to come, will fill up a memory bank that you can reminisce about in the future.
Whether it’s sitting on the couch and having a brief conversation or playing together in a tennis league, quality time is a love language that is shared by many. Setting aside focused time with your mate will ensure a happy marriage.
3. Receiving Gifts
Some mates respond well to visual symbols of love. If you speak this love language, you are more likely to treasure any gift as an expression of love and devotion. People who speak this love language often feel that a lack of gifts represents a lack of love from their mate.
The gift of self is an important symbol of love. Sometimes all your mate desires is for someone to be there for them, going through the same trials and experiencing the same things. Your body can become a very powerful physical symbol of love.
These gifts need not to come every day, or even every week. They don’t even need to cost a lot of money. Free, frequent, expensive, or rare, if your mate relates to the language of receiving gifts, any visible sign of your love will leave them feeling happy and secure in your relationship
4. Acts of Service
Sometimes simple chores around the house can be an undeniable expression of love. Even simple things like laundry and taking out the trash require some form of planning, time, effort, and energy.
It is important to do these acts of service out of love and not obligation. A mate who does chores and helps out around the house out of guilt or fear will inevitably not be speaking a language of love, but a language of resentment. It’s important to perform these acts out of the kindness of your heart
5. Physical Touch
Many mates feel the most loved when they receive physical contact from their partner. For a mate who speaks this love language loudly, physical touch can make or break the relationship.
It is important to learn how your mate speaks the physical touch language. Some touches are irritating and uncomfortable for your mate. Take the time to learn the touches your mate likes. They can be big acts, such as back massages or lovemaking, or little acts such as touches on the cheek or a hand on the shoulder. It’s important to learn how your mate responds to touch. That is how you will make the most of this love language
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Well, I've already found out my love language a long time ago and it's Quality Time and Physical Touch.
I need quality time with my friends and the boyfriend. I don't meet my friends many times but sometimes when we meet, we'll share our thoughts and feelings and we'll just listen. We'll sit at Starbucks, have a drink, and just chat. That for me is quality time already - sharing together.
Quality time for me and the boyfriend is when it's only both of us together. We can be sharing our thoughts with each other, or slouching on the sofa watching a dvd and eating pizza together, or cooking dinner together. That for me is quality time. It doesn't have to require any fancy dinner... just need him to spend time with me, focus his energy on me.
Physical touch. The little acts make me feel very loved already. There was a time when I got scolded BIG TIME by my dad, and I was soooo down. My friend who was beside me did not say anything, all she did was to give me a hug and I felt so loved... and I started crying like a baby.
At my grandma's funeral, my cousin came forward to give me a hug and I felt really comforted and again, I cried. I just felt really loved la, even though it's just a hug.
When out with friends, I feel loved when the boyfriend do simple things like touching my hair, or putting his arm around my shoulders. Nothing big. But it makes me feel like he's thinking of me and he's not afraid to show it. Being natural. That's all.
What's your love language?
Some girls are like that. They expect their boyfriends to remember.
I decided to ask that question to The Boyfriend and see if he could remember what I wore on our first date.
Me: Hey, do you remember what I wore on our first date?
Him: *thinks hard* Hmm... I can't remember (he must have felt bad uh?)
Me: Oh....
Him: Well what did you wore then?
Me: *thinks hard* Oh. Hmm. I can't remember either ((i'm sure he didn't feel bad anymore)
Him: ...... Then do you remember what I wore?
Me: *thinks hard again* No, I don't remember.
Him: ......
Me: Then do you remember what I wore yesterday?
Him: Yeah. You wore that *blank blank blank* (i wrote *blank* because I cannot remember what I wore)
Me: Oh, not bad. You remembered. But of course, it was just yesterday !
Him: What did I wore yesterday then?
Me: .... *thinks hard AGAIN !!* Oh ! You wore that light blue shirt !
Him: No.
Me: Oh ! You wore that Pull & Bear shirt !
Him: No.
Me: ... I can't remember.
Do you know what's the moral of this?
Why bother remembering what your partner wore on the first date or even the day before ?!
Alright, I only said that because I cannot remember what my partner wore. But it doesn't matter right? I remember more important things about him.
This reminds me of another conversation I have with my friend.
Friend: So when were you guys together? When's the anniversary ?!
Me: The date that we're together?
Friend: Yeah !
Me: I don't know.
Friend: *in utter shock* What? You don't know when you guys were together?
Me: Yeah I don't remember. Is there a need?
It's not that I do not care about our r/s. But I feel that there is not a need for me to remember about such stuff. Maybe if we're married, then yeah, I'll remember our anniversary date because it bears a different meaning already. But for now, I don't think so. It's just me.
" A relationship is defined by the moments and the memories "
- Daphne
We definitely have quite a few. Afterall we've already known each other for quite awhile before being together.
But well, we're still young, we'll surely have more moments and memories in future.
But I think we're doing great now. I have a feeling we're going to last long.
So are my friends.
So I wanted to hurry get to the toilet.
I walked towards the entrance and once I was there, about to exit and hurry to the washroom, this happened :
1st Lady: You can't go out. We're not going to let anyone out. It's about to start and we're closing the door soon.
I looked at my watch and saw that there's still 15-20 minutes to go. There was another lady beside me, confused too.
Me: So what now? I can't even go to the toilet now? ---- I was pissed and dying to piss !
1st Door Lady: *did the raise shoulder action thing, trying to say she don't know, and walks away !!*
What ?!! She had the cheek to walk away !!
Oki never mind. I went to another lady to ask her about this as I wanted to make sure. Gosh they were wasting my peeing time!
Me: Excuse me? Can I go to the washroom and come back in again with this ticket ?
2nd Door Lady : *totally ignores me and turns away*
This second lady is even better than the first. She's super !
I was staring straight at her face, looking into her eyes and talking to her and she ignores me?!!!!
THESE PEOPLE !!!!
I was shocked !
I was thinking if I should 1) scream in awe by how rude they were, or 2) go up to the second door lady and grab her shoulders by both hands and continuously shake her while yelling " I'M TALKING TO YOU !! RESPOND !!! " when suddenly this door uncle said ,
" Yes, you can go to the toilet and come back later =) "
He said it with a smiley face.
Phew! Finally someone who responds, I thought.
There's a difference between those 2 ladies and that uncle.
MSN me if you wanna know. Can't say it here.
Oh, FYI, they closed the door late and they were still letting people in and out after closing the door.
When I think of the tears I shed for the idiotic bums in the past, I just want to keep slapping myself till I fall dead.
Why so dumb ???????
Why was I so hurt back then? I can't even remember it now.
Why did I waste so much energy?
What the hell was I thinking?
One big lesson learned man.
I know it's normal to feel sad but did I have to go to the extreme of crying almost everyday, coping myself at home, losing my mood and appetite? I guessed the only thing I benefited from all these was weight loss :) haha.
Silly uh, when you think back on your past r/s.
You cried buckets when you were with that guy, cried more buckets when that guy left you.
But suddenly you met a new guy and the old one is long forgotten and you'll think " Hey, why did I cry so much for him? This new guy is sooo much better! But thank God for that breakup because I lost some weight and look so much better now! That was the best thing I've got from that r/s! "
It's not worth being with a guy who doesn't appreciate me and I'm not going to make the same mistake again.
Breaking up is not fatal. No one died from it.
Don't waste your youth on some jackass.
Being random here, my ulcer is gone !!!!!!
Whoever came up with ulcer cream is a genius !!!!
I'm sooo excited to meet my friends for lunch tomorrow !!!!
It's usually easy to start something but very difficult to maintain it.
Just like relationships.
It's easy to start a r/s, but not easy to maintain it.
You know, I never believe that a r/s can go smooth sailing w/o problems and arguments. NEVER.
Every r/s has its own problems and the couple will definitely have their disagreements and arguments one day!
If every r/s was so free of problems, then what are we going to learn?
Ups and downs...
Problems are bound to occur. It's how the couple deals with it, solve it and learn from it.
I have the urge to say "Let's break up" whenever I'm in the middle of a difficult situation with the boyfriend. I'll get tired of the argument and I just want to get over it. Saying "Let's break up" seems to be the easiest way to end everything. But it isnt. I know I'll regret for not trying harder enough with the boyfriend to solve the problem especially when breaking up is not what I want.
I take every problem as an opportunity to learn more about my partner and our r/s. But of course, problems suck! I mean, who likes to argue? But instead of avoiding it, I think it's best we talk about it and learn from it. It isn't easy you know. Sometimes during the process, a lot of spiteful, angry and hurtful words are said and there's tears in my eyes... our hearts are hurt and broken, spirit is down... lots of sighing...
I've learned that communication and honesty is the best in solving problems. I'll try not to hide my feelings and just bare it all out for my partner to hear. If we're unhappy about something, we'll say it out. Sometimes this 'problem solving process' can take hours but it's all worth it when we both finally solve the problem together and forgive each other.
Then we'll give each other one big tight hug :)
Sometimes I feel bad for the boyfriend. He apologises even when it's not his fault, he tries to make me happy even when I'm giving him the cold shoulder. Sometimes I'm quite mean and unreasonable too, making life difficult for him. I think half the time he don't know what I'm angry about also unless I say it out.
Men.
It's great to have a partner who gives in and compromises. But it's even better to have the partner hold your hand and work through the problems you both face in the r/s together.
I know for a fact that the boyfriend will not abandon me to solve the problem myself. I know he'll walk with me, solve it with me and learn with me just like he always have. Always.
I'm grateful for that.
you're still great to me
1. Cope yourself at home
Do this for the next 3-7 days and keep thinking about it and cry your heart out. Just keep thinking and crying. You're almost better when
a) You find yourself feeling silly and dumb crying over that ass
b) You feel sick thinking about your breakup.
2. Sleep late almost everyday (works, but not good for your skin)
Almost everyday I slept around 4am plus and woke up for school around 6am plus. I ended up feeling very tired and distracted that I DO NOT have the time to go think about some ass.
This is a very very bad healing method though. You'll just end up getting bad headaches and a lot of pimples on your face and back =(
3. Keep talking about it.
Keep talking about that jerk and the breakup/rejection and how sad you are to your friends ! Keep talking about it until they feel so irritated they ask you to stop !!!
I really kept talking about it to my close friends until one of them suddenly said " Will you stop talking about it? Always about him!".
Wow. I felt a bit offended but it really did wake me up! I suddenly became conscious of my actions and realised how stupid I've been !!
4. Hibernate.
After coping and crying at home for the last 3-7 days, continue coping yourself at home for the next 2-3 days and 'hibernate'. Do not sms anyone, do not use the computer, no msn or internet, no phonecalls. Just stay away from your friends and the world for a few days.
Go reflect, think about your future, think about things and people that make u happy. Don't think about him.
You can go out ALONE. Go for a walk, get some fresh air =)
5. Be single for as long as you can.
DO NOT anyhow find a new guy to like!!
It's not very effective, and it's very mean !
Substitutions won't work. It's worse when you don't like that new guy and he likes you. You'll end up breaking his heart.
Ar...if you believe in karma....
Stay single till you really meet someone you like. BE HAPPY ALONE !!
6. Forgive
You have to learn to forgive that ass... and let go. It'll really release you from all your hatred, unahppiness and negative thoughts.
Talk to him again when you're ready. Just casual talk like "Hi, how are you? How are things going..."
That's all !! Don't go ask if he has a new girlfriend whatsoever. Just keep the conversation simple. Continue to be friends with him, NOT BEST FRIENDS !!
7. Love like you've never been hurt
If you happen to meet someone new and start a r/s with that new guy, don't make the same mistakes you've made in the past.
Don't keep being paranoid or suspicious, and think he's cheating on you, lying to you (i'm sure you had all those thoughts when your r/s was on the rocks with your ex)
Love the new guy like you've never been hurt before.
It'll make you so much happier =)
TA DA!
Those are my 7 methods of healing. Haha.
It worked for me.
Those were crap moments, but I'm so much happier now =)
I thought I was alright, but it just irks me everytime I think of it again.
Do you know how many times I asked you about it?
I did not just ask you once or twice. I asked you many many many times. I confirmed with you over and over again.
All these time I asked, you said "Yes".
So I thought this arrangement which we have arranged soooooooo damn long ago was finalized and confirmed.
Therefore I thought "Alright, since we arranged before already then so be it."
But surprise, surprise. What did you tell me today?
I'm fed up with the fact that I confirmed with you so many times and u said yes and now you totally broke that agreement.
What's the reason for it?
I asked you for it and you didn't even reply me.
If it were someone else, fine.
But of all persons, you? Couldn't you even keep this simple promise to me?
It's not like I never confirm it with you. I did ! I freaking did it at least 10 times!
You don't just tell me one thing and do another !
And why are you always not free these past few months??!!
" You guys still can keep in contact ar"
" It's not like she's gone forever!"
That's what people tell me when I tell them I'm sad that my best friend is leaving already.
Of course I know those things. It's their way of making me feel better...thanks.
But it's the feeling of me sending her off at the airport, waving to her at the departure gate.
It's the feeling of not being able to see her, hear her laughter and nonsense and not having her presence around us for soooo long that kills me.
It'll be so weird not having her around when the friends go out together. She's always around, and not seeing her just makes me wish she is still here. Sure she will be back, but that will be few years later. Other than that, I won't get to see her very often already. Things will be different.
And it's so dangerous overseas. Who knows what kind of people are out there in Melbourne...plus there's the H1N1 thing going on. How am I suppose to feel at peace ?
You know, I hardly cry and sometimes I just don't have any empathy for others. I don't always care of what others think of me or what I do (that's because it's my own life and what's your problem?)
I know sometimes people misunderstand me for someone I'm not... Many times I'm either too lazy to explain or just not able to express my thoughts and feelings well enough. Maybe that's why some people call me hard-hearted... but it doesn't really matter anyway. I don't really want to explain myself to others. It's either they understand me or they don't. It's a blessing to have understanding friends.
In fact, there are only a few occasions (in my entire 21 yrs of life on earth) where I remembered myself being very sad and crying:
1. Cried over a guy
2. Cried over 3 stuff that someone did to me - treated me coldly, lied to me, said things about me that's not true.
3. Cried while watching Lion King (Silly I know)
4. Cried over this Korean movie when the dog died (I was damn sad when Marley died too. Animals make me cry la)
5. Cried when my grandma passed away.
That's it. I just can't remember about the rest. I do cry, but really not a lot.
Yet somehow I feel that I will cry when I send my friend off tomorrow. I'll really miss her sooooooo much, more than you can imagine.
It's the sending her off part especially !!!! Argh !!!!!!!!!!!!
Miss you babe =)
I saw this in Daphne's blog - motherinc.org
It's funny.
Is this really what men want ?
I'll really hate it if this is what men want from women
But this remote control is really hilarious.
Haha.
No remote control for you !
Let's not talk about character, inner beauty or whatever.
I won't like a guy if he's
1. Vainer than me
Why would I want a man who looks at the mirror more than I do?
2. He makes me sleep when he speaks
Of course if the conversation is not interesting, I'll hardly be listening.
I went out with a few guy friends before and some of us just don't click.
Some try too hard, some don't try at all, some keep talking about army, some keep talking about work, while others just keep talking about how sad their life is or how smart they are.
3. A douchebag
Hate that grin.
Those muscles are way too big!
When I see guys like this, I get reminded of those ass we see in movies sometimes.
They are bullies, playboys and they like having big muscles.
I do not want to hear about gym and calcium shakes 24/7.
And they have no goals =(
4. He dresses like this
Nice, but too metrosexual for me.
Why not just t-shirt and jeans for casual wear?
5. He wears skinny jeans
I seriously don't care if you're Jonas brothers or whatever. Skinny jeans on a guy is ugly !!
It's disgusting and believe me when I say many people, both males and females hate it.
I'm going to puke now.
Busy with school work, lessons, fyp and my social life.
FYP IS A KILLER.
It's bad if your fyp is tough, but it's even worse when you have terrible teammates.
One of my friends fell sick because of his teammates.
Poor him.
His teammates are lazy and slow and they don't seem interested in doing any work.
Actually, the main culprit is *Marc.
Marc, the lazy monster who looks like a pig. We gave him a new name - Zhu Yao (say in chi)
He is ALWAYS saying he's tired.
Yet becomes so energetic and enthusiastic when it comes to food.
Not pig then what?
It's such a torture to have teammates like him. Practically dragging the whole team down.
He probably makes his leader and his other teammates do the work while he sits at a corner busy gobbling up all the food he can get his hands on.
We're stressed.
We're tired.
We can't wait for this project to be over.
We even meet on Sundays now.
Our brain is constantly thinking about FYP.
Whether it's eating, bathing, brushing teeth, sleeping, peeing..... we're always thinking about FYP.
This project is about team work. All of us have to contribute and work hard together.
Therefore...
We promise not to be like Marc !
We will work hard and be responsible for all the work we have to do.
We shall not become Zhu Yao !
Work hard alright Marc?
I'm sure you men have watched porn at least once in your life.
Don't try to lie and say you never.
Isit like a male thing?
I think so right? Else why almost every men watch porn?
I understand that guys do watch it.
However I feel it's very wrong when men get hooked onto it like a drug addiction.
You might started seeing it because of curiosity.
You might have started seeing it because you were especially bored that day.
But curiosity can turn to lust. Boredom can turn to lust.
And lust will make you desire for sexual satisfaction.
Thanks to lust, we have jerks molesting and raping innocent girls.
I get annoyed with the fact that so many men watch porn.
You might say that you're just looking at pictures and videos and it's not like you'll fall for those files you downloaded.
But sometimes I wonder what you men picture in your head when you look at girls.
Are you just looking at them or are you looking at them with dirty thoughts in your mind?
Once I saw this man looking at this women from head to toe.
I knew he wasn't just purely looking at her. He was definitely having some filthy thoughts in his filthy mind.
I felt so disgusted.
Those who have a girlfriend/wife should all the more NOT watch porn.
I do not think it's oki and acceptable. It's not !!
Don't you have enough respect for your girlfriend or wife?
Put yourself in your girlfriend's / wife's shoes la.
This isn't love at all.
It's corrupted love.
Eww.
Even for someone like me who is so open-minded, I just can't take it when men tell me they have watched porn before or still is !
I feel like you're so dirty-minded. Yucks, yucks, yucks.
Don't watch anymore.
It will really pollute your mind.
If you like boobs so much, go buy a cow la.
I choose love over romance.
When I was younger, I used to dream of the kind of r/s I wanted.
You know, those fairytale and hollywood kind. Taiwan and Korea is pretty good in doing those dramas that make you daydream constantly about your romantic r/s with that guy. All the flowers and gifts and sweet-talk.
Gosh.
On Valentine's Day, I saw many females holding bouquet of flowers given by their boyfriends.
Giving flowers is fine but if you give flowers every year? So corny.
And bears? Am I like 5?
As I begin to grow up, I realised I don't always need to have flowers or candlelit dinner for occasions such as Valentine.
I do not mean a complete zero in romance, because it is still necessary in every r/s.
It does !
But love is so much more than romance.
Any guy can be romantic. But how would I know if that guy really loves me?
An ass can be romantic too.
It's those litle things like rather spending time with me instead of his friends, slouching on the sofa with me watching dvd and eating pizza, taking care of me when I'm sick, calling me everynight before he sleeps, cooks for me when I have no lunch, wanting to meet me only and not anyone else everyday... making me his priority. Isn't that romantic too?
Those things like going for candlelit dinner, giving flowers for Valentine, celebrating monthly anniversary, writing love letters... you don't have to do that all the time. It loses its flavour if you keep doing it.
Gets boring don't you think?
And don't do it as though you're doing it for the sake of making me fall even deeper in love with you... get oh so impressed of you.
Ewww.
It's romance with love.
Not just romance alone oki ?
" Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable and keeps no record of being wronged. It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out. Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstances. "
- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7
One of my friends, BK, wrote a very funny and touching bday message for me.
Aww, so nice of you la !
Here goes:
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO U !
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO U !
HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO CHEN PEI WEN CLARIS AKA BABOO AKA WEN WEN AKA PEI PEI !
FINALLY 21st!
ONE YEAR OLDER LE MEAN U ARE GETTING OLD!
THAT MEAN EVERYTHING OLD !!!!!
SOOOOOOO OLD !!!!!!!!!
HAHA !!!!!!
KK... ALL THE BEST TO U !
STOP BEING SO GL !
STOP USING THOSE GL WORDS !
STOP UR NONSENSE !
HAHA!!
WISH U ALL THE BEST !!
STAY PRETTY AND MAINTAIN UR UNIQUE ASS!!
HAHA !!
HOPE U WILL LIKE THIS BIRTHDAY WISH !!
IF NOT ENOUGH LET ME KNOW I CAN FAX, EMAIL ETC!!
F*** u !!
Haha. Thanks for the message man :)
I suddenly felt so "sian" because there was no surprise at all.
It's not their fault for telling me.
Since I was the one who made the list.
Just that I thought I would be fine without surprise.
Don't know why I want surprise now.
Maybe it's been awhile since I was surprised by someone.
I just wanted to open the presents with anticipation...
thinking eagerly what my friends have got me.
But never mind la..
Those who have not told me what present you're getting me, don't.
Can you all don't tell me what you guys buying?
I really don't wanna know already la.
I'm deleting the birthday list.
Even so, please don't get me chocolates or stupid books or anything too pink, flowerly, girly. No soft toys and flowers. Thanks a lot man you guys :)
Let's Observe :)
But as I began to grow up, having plenty and plenty and plenty of friends is not the most important. Having an incredibly large social circle was not a concern. I did not just want to have many friends... I wanted to have real friends. Friends who are worth having. Quality friendship. Not about quantity.
And I thank God for the close friends He blessed me with.
:)
It's about 1.20 am right now.
And I'm not tired yet.
I tried to sleep an hour ago, but I could not.
Kept tossing and turning around. Urgh.
I guessed it's because my body is too used to sleeping super late at night...
Now sleeping early is a problem for me too.
It's so frustrating.
What's worse is I did not go out at all today and so it'll probably be tougher for me to get tired.
I'm trying to make myself tired now.
So silly can.
Gosh I feel like going out now.
Haha.
I should really get back my normal sleeping pattern.
For me, 2008 wasn't a really good year for me. There were more downs than ups and it was the only year so far, where I cried sooooo much.
I must have been super sad and devastated during those bad times uh?
Yet when I was reading my past entries just now, I laughed and thought how silly and dumb I was. Haha!
Some entries were really stupid and funny. I had " The 5 people I met in school ", where I wrote about my 5 very good friends. I had " I'm your boyfriend's best friend ", " La Pictures " blah blah blah... I read about the times where I spent with my friends, I read about my road to recovery and those good and bad times I had.
Although I cried a lot, I also laughed a lot :)
I had a great time especially at Soo's birthday party and during Christmas. It was soooo full of love :)
Christmas eve kind of suck though, and I spent my countdown to Christmas day beside a funeral. Haha ! But waiting was kind of worth it la :)
My secondary school friends spent countdown to 2009 with me. We did nothing wild but the company was great :)
Some left around 4am plus, while the rest came to my house and stayed till late afternoon. It was so nice to have people around me and waking up to see my loved ones there :)
2008 was also the year where it reaffirm my relationship with people like Ling, Soo, Yau, Guo Yan and Bk. I realised I need these 5 people in my life... for the rest of my life ! Seriously !
Oh ! and just hours after countdown, I already lost my temper to the security guard at my house, Guo Yan and my mum. Tsk tsk. so bad of me. But I did apologised to Guo Yan and my mum. So sorry !
I wanted to apologise to the security guard too but I changed my mind after my friends told me that he was rude to them as well. Haha!
Hmm, 2008 is over and one of my 2009 resolutions is to STOP SLEEPING SO LATE !!!!
I must take good care of my health !
2009 will be tough as workload gets more and it's another year where challenges and obstacles come again.
Relationships with family, friends and loved ones get tested again.
But I believe these will only make us stronger. We can overcome all of it right !!!!
Love like I've never been hurt.
Work like I don't need the money.
Dance like no one's watching.
Looking forward to 2009.
